“Absence makes the heart grow fonder,” but “out of sight, out of mind.” We find comfort in the familiar, but “familiarity breeds contempt.” The basic moral is that relationships take work. Friendships only last as long as someone bothers to pick up the phone every once in a while to find out that Suzie married [...]
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A Few Familiar Sayings…
Posted in 'Real Life', BDSM & Me on June 5, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
The Art of Massage
Posted in 'Real Life', BDSM & Me on July 15, 2007 | Leave a Comment »
I love massages. Neck rubs, foot rubs, back massage, leg massage, hand massage, I love them all.
However, anyone who’s had more than one or two massages in their life will tell you that there are good massages, great massages, and ‘better off without’ massages. If you want to pamper ME you’d better know [...]
mistress – [mis-tris] n.
Posted in BDSM & Me on July 1, 2007 | Leave a Comment »
1. a woman who has authority, control, or power, esp. the female head of a household, institution, or other establishment.
2. a woman employing, or in authority over, servants or attendants.
3. a female owner of an animal, or formerly, a slave.
4. a woman who has the power of controlling or disposing of something at her own pleasure: mistress of a [...]
I am a Mistress.
Posted in BDSM & Me on June 18, 2007 | Leave a Comment »
It’s not something I put on my resume. It doesn’t go on my transcript. I don’t (usually) put it on my business card. I wouldn’t introduce myself as one in everyday conversation. It doesn’t define ME.
Which is not to say it’s not an important part of my life. It influences [...]
